It is funny to see that men are searching for the perfect guide to pick up women although sometimes they don’t even realize that they don’t need it. There are many situations when a man can establish a connection between with a woman without even realizing it. For example, you are calmly shopping and looking for an item that you can’t find it. You ask the pretty lady that is at the store there to help you. She shows you where the item is, you thank her and say a few words that connect both of you. You make her laugh and move on. The same night, you go out with your friends to meet some nice girls and you see the grocery store lady all dressed up. You see her in a beautiful dress, want to go and talk to her but you can’t. This shows that men don’t need a guide. What they really need is confidence to do that important first step.